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Books about Grief and Loss for Children and Adolescents
About Dying: An Open Family Book for Parents and Children Together by Sara Bonnett Stein, Photos by Dick Frank
Published by Walker and Company, 1974
ISBN 0-8027-7223-4
A book for very young children which is meant to be worked through together with their parents or caregivers.
After A Suicide: Young People Speak Up by Susan Kuklin
Published by G.P. Putnam's Sons, 1994
ISBN 0-399-22801-2
Teenagers deal with suicide of parents, family members, and friends.
After the Funeral by Jane Loretta Winsch
ISBN 0-8091-6625-9
Annie and the Old One by Miska Miles, Illustrated by Peter Parnall
Published by Little, Brown, and Company, 1971
ISBN 0-316-57120-2
Annie's grandmother has told her Navaho family that she is preparing to die. She will live until the latest rug is finished and asks her loved ones what gift they wish to keep. Annie chooses her grandmother's weaving stick but she panics at the thought of her grandmother's death. Although she works on the rug, every night she unravels all the work which has been done that day. At last, her grandmother explains that death is part of a natural cycle, an integral part of creation. Annie understands and begins to weave the rug again. Newbury Honor Book ALA Notable Children's Book Christopher Award
Badger's Parting Gift by Susan Varley
Published by Mulberry Books, 1984
ISBN 0-688-11518-7
Great story about loosing an older member of the family and honoring their personal contributions.
The Blue Pearls by Elizabeth Stuart Warfel, Illustrated by Véronique Giarrusso Published by Barefoot Books, 2001
ISBN 1-902283-78-3
A beautifully-illustrated book written by a mother who lost her adult daughter to cancer. The story relates a dream of angels searching for the blue pearls needed to finish the lovely dress a woman will receive when she arrives in heaven. The woman is granted a little extra time to love and play with her three daughters while the angels search for the three pearls. A good book for a read-aloud book for very young children, allowing an adult care-giver to discuss death from a religious viewpoint.
The Cemetery Quilt by Kent and Alice Ross
Published by Houghton Mifflin
A very wise story of a girl who goes to her grandfather's funeral and talks to her grandmother about death and how she feels about it.
Daddy's Climbing Tree by C.S. Adler
Published by Clarion Books, 1993
ISBN 0-395-63032-0 HC
Jessica, 11, takes her little brother Tycho to her grandparent's house to look for Daddy, who was struck and killed by a hit and run driver. She is sure that he is up in his favorite climbing tree, where he had told her that he had spent many happy hours growing up. But the grandparents don't live there anymore and Daddy isn't there either. She learns to look for his memory in her heart. This is meant for older children to read on their own.
Dragonfly Door by John Adams
Published by Feather Rock Bks. Inc,2007
ISBN 978-1934066126
Inviting story about nature’s way of teaching loss and change.
Everett Anderson's Goodbye by Lucille Clifton
Published by Henry Holt (An Owlet book), 1983
ISBN 0-8050-0800-4
This little picture book goes through the stages of grief in very few words and big pictures.
The Fall of Freddie the Leaf by Leo Buscaglia, PhD
Published by Slack, 1982
ISBN 0-943432-89-8 Slack
ISBN 0-8050-1064-5 Henry Holt
Natural cycles of life and death discussed in simple terms by a cultural icon.
Finding Grandpa Everywhere: A Young Child Discovers Memories of a Grandparent by John Hodge
Published by Centering Corporation (October 1998)
ISBN 978-1561231256
A young child discovers memories of a grandparent. This book is beautifully illustrated with a storyline that addresses issues that children have after a grandparent dies. It includes a section for teachers and parents.
Flying Hugs and Kisses by Jewel Sample
Published by Lifevest Publishing, Inc. (April 20, 2006)
ISBN 978-1598791198
Heartwarming story about how children learn to accept family loss and change. Five children creatively take on roles of support toward each other while showing their individual feelings about the death of their baby brother. This sensitive story of grief recovery is a great resource for parents to use to help their children understand and affirm their experience of the loss of a brother or sister.
Goodbye Mousie by Robie H. Harris
ISBN 0-689-83217-6
Gran-Gran’s Best Trick by MAD. Holden and L. Dwight
Published by Mar-Co Products, Inc.
Grief by Laurie Beckleman
Crestwood House ( A Hotline Book), 1995
ISBN 0-382-24958-5
A book for adolescents and teenagers dealing with grief.
The Grieving Child: A Parent's Guide by Helen Fitzgerald
Published by Simon and Schuster, 1992
ISBN 0-671-76762-3
A book for parents or caregivers helping children to cope with grief.
Help For the Hard Times: Getting Through Loss by Earl Hipp, Illustrated by L.K.Hanson
Published by Hazelden, 1995
ISBN 1-56838-085-2 PB
A self-help workbook for older children but valuable for younger children as well if only as a source of hints for things a caregiver could develop on their own.
Helping Children Cope with the Illness and Death of a Love One by Joe Ferry & Barbara Bonton
I Had a Friend Named Peter: Talking to Children About the Death of a Friend by Janice Cohn, D.S.W., Illustrated by Gail Owens
Published by William Morrow and Company, 1987
ISBN 0-688-06685-2
Betsy's friend Peter has been struck by car and killed. Her parents explain what death is and what will happen. Betsy and her friends at school make pictures of Peter and decide that as long as they remember him, Peter will always be with them in a special way.
I Miss You: A First Look At Death by Pat Thomas
Published by Barron's Educational Series (January 1, 2001)
ISBN 978-0764117640
When a close friend or family member dies, it can be difficult for children to express their feelings. This book helps boys and girls understand that death is a natural complement to life, and that grief and a sense of loss are normal feelings for them to have following a loved one's death. Titles in this sensitively presented series explore the dynamics of various relationships experienced by children of preschool through early school age. Kids are encouraged to understand personal feelings and social problems as a first step in dealing with them.
"I Wish I Could Hold Your Hand —": A Child's Guide to Grief and Loss by Pat Palmer, Illustrated by Dianne O'Quinn Burke
Published by Impact Publishers, 1992
ISBN 978-0915166824
For older children facing loss and grief of many kinds, and suitable for almost any child when mediated by a parent or caregiver.
If Nathan Were Here by Mary Bahr, Illustrated by Karen A Jerome
Published by Eerdmans Books for Young Readers (2000)
ISBN 0-8028-5187-8
ISBN 0-8028-5235-1
This is a story of the grief of a young boy whose best friend has died. With the help of an understanding teacher, a kind neighbor, and an empathetic parent, the boy finds ways to give expression to his questions and sorrow and to reach out to someone else who needs him.
The Key Into Winter by Janet S. Anderson, Illustrated by David Soman
Published by Albert Whitman Prairie Books, 1994
ISBN 0-8075-4170-2
This is a magical story about a household in which there are four keys which open the seasons. A young girl hides the key into winter to prevent her grandmother's approaching death. It is an allegory for the natural cycles of life and coming to terms with grief and loss and learning to hope.
The Kids Book About Death and Dying: By and For Kids by Eric E. Rofes and the Unit at Fayerweather School
Published by Little, Brown and Company
ISBN 0-316-75390-4
Children deal with death and dying.
Lifetimes: The Beautiful Way to Explain Death to Children by Bryan Mellonie and Robert Ingpen
Published by Bantam Books, 1993
ISBN 0-553-34402-1
A book about natural lifetimes in all creatures and the fact that sometimes those lives are cut short by accident.
L.O.S.S.: Letting Our Sadness Show by Connie Miller
Published by Bright Ideas
A group packet to help young people in Third through Eight learn how to cope with grief and loss.
Memory Book – A Special Way to Remember Someone You Love by Kathleen Knoderer
ISBN 157542-055-4
Mending Peter's Heart by Maureen Whitbold, Illustrated by Larry Salk
Published by Portunus Publishing, 1995
A boy's dog dies and he is helped through his anger and hurt by his grandfather who describes his own love for his wife and his belief that they will all be reunited in a very good place where there isn't any pain.
Missing Hannah: Based on a True Story of Sudden Infant Death by Darlene Kane Published by AuthorHouse (January 26, 2006)
ISBN 1425901360
Sensitive story portrays a child’s journey as she faces her feelings about the death of her baby sister to SIDS.
Mrs. Magruder and the Purple Hat by Judy Barron Williams
Published by Mar*Co Products, Inc.
Nana Upstairs & Nana Downstairs by Tomie dePaola
ISBN 0-14-050290-4
Part Of Me Died Too by Virginia Lynn Fry
Published by Dutton Children's Books
ISBN 0-525-45068-8 HC
Children from a year and a half to eighteen deal with the death of beloved pets, parents, dear friends, siblings and other relatives. This book has lots of stories to tell, each helpful in its own way.
Sad Isn't Bad: A Good-Grief Guidebook for Kids Dealing With Loss by Michaelene Mundy
Published by Abbey Press annotated edition edition (September 1998)
ISBN 978-0870293214
Loaded with positive, life-affirming advice for coping with loss as a child, this guide tells children what they need to know after a loss--that the world is still safe life is good and hurting hearts do mend. Written by a school counselor, this book helps comfort children facing of the worst and hardest kind of reality.
The Saddest Time by Norma Simon
Published by Albert Whitman Prairie Books
This book contains three short stories about different kinds of death and grief: an uncle with a terminal illness, a classmate killed in an accident, and a grandparent.
Samantha Jane's Missing Smile: A Story About Coping With the Loss of a Parent by Julie Kaplow
Published by Magination Press (May 15, 2007)
ISBN 978-1591478089
The story of a young girl whose father has recently died deals with the full range of emotions, questions, and worries that children have when a parent has died. Offers ways to remember and honor the lost parent, encourages the open sharing of feelings, and helps children understand that their parents want them to be happy and live their lives fully.
Saying Goodbye by Jim and Joan Bouden
ISBN 1-878076-12-4
Skills for Living by Rosemarie Smead Morganett
Group Counseling Activities for Elementary Students
Tear Soup: A Recipe for Healing After Loss by Pat Schweibert and Chuck DeKlyen, Illustrated by Taylor Bills
Published by Grief Watch, 1974
ISBN 978-0961519766
Excellent book for all ages, but meant to be worked through by or with an adult. The vocabulary is mature, and the print is… like a regular book — although accompanied by warm and welcoming illustrations — and encourages those who grieve to work through their own grief in their own way, with many helpful ‘recipes’ that the individual may find useful in their own situation. Winner of the Theologos Award, 2001
The Tenth Good Thing About Barney by Judith Viorst, Illustrated by Erik Blevgard Published by Aladdin Paperbacks, 1971
ISBN 0-689-71203-0
A very good book about death and the sad feelings of a little girl coming to terms with the death of her cat with the help of her father.
What on Earth Do You Do When Someone Dies? By Trevor Romain
Published by Free Spirit Publishing (1999)
ISBN 1-57542-055-4
In a compassionate, enlightening, straightforward manner, this book addresses the many questions and thoughts that children have after the death of someone close.
When Dinosaurs Die: a Guide to Understanding Death by Laurie Krasny Brown and Marc Brown
Published by Little, Brown and Company, 1996
ISBN 0-316-10917-7
A multicultural look at dying and the customs that surround it
When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid's Own Workbook for Remembering Shiva and the Year Beyond by Nechama Liss-levinson, PhD
Published by Jewish Lights Publishing, 1995
ISBN 1-879045-44-3
The rituals surrounding death are clearly explained.
When Someone Very Special Dies: Children Learn to Cope With Grief by Marge Heegaard
Published by Woodland Press
ISBN 0-9620502-0-2
A workbook to be illustrated by the child with pictures. There are rough outlines to follow in a kind of free-form coloring book.
When Something Terrible Happens: Children Learn to Cope With Grief by Marge Heegaard
Published by Woodland Press
ISBN 0-9620502-3-7
A workbook to be illustrated by the child with pictures. There are rough outlines to follow in a kind of free-form coloring book.
Will I Live Forever? By Carolyn Nystrom
Published by Candle Books (February 18, 2006)
ISBN 978-0825473067
Simplistic Christian story about the loss of a bird and the discovery of the questions surrounding death and heaven.